How to Stop Avoiding Conflicts and Start Engaging with Them Positively

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Most of us know this scenario quite well:

A conflict arises between ourselves and someone else,
or between two other people who are dear to us,
and our first reaction is…RUN!

We generally just want to make this conflict disappear ASAP
so that we can go on with our lives in harmony and ease.

This approach causes alot of suffering for us because: 

A. It assumes that conflict is somehow “wrong” and that having a conflict means something is not OK with us or with our life.

B. We don’t always know HOW to make the conflict go away, and this fact makes us feel even worse. And –

C. We are fighting with reality, wishing for things to be different than they are, which is always painful.

However, the good news is that there IS a different way to approach conflicts! 

In today’s Video-log I talk about how to stop avoiding conflicts

and start engaging with them as golden opportunities for transformation in our life




Now I would love to hear from YOU –

Do you tend to avoid conflicts as well?

Do you have strategies of your own you can share?

What insights or questions came up for you from these tips & exercises?

I would LOVE to hear from you and respond!

I would really appreciate it if you decide to share this video with your friends, so they can benefit from these tools too!

See you next time,


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